29 Lessons

July 22, 2020

Wow I made it.... I'm officially 29 what a year health recovery, self discovery, a terrible dating life and to top it off a Pandemic and to end it a letter telling me I was being furloughed from my amazing job. At this point I don't even know how to feel. I'm sure many of you can relate to all this or even worst. It's the way we look at things and all the possible outcomes prepares us for any scenario, push yourself to always be optimistic.

Health wise I'm feeling great my Rheumatoid Arthritis is doing pretty good most days.

I think most of my lessons had to do with health, love, self-love and finances

Here are 29 random things I learned.

  1. When you feel pain or feel unwell don't keep putting off going to the doctor. Just go!
  2. Give love and don't expect to receive it in return in the same amounts (even thought it would be nice)
  3. Enjoy every moment and be grateful for the beautiful things in your life.
  4. Travel and learn from others, meet people and learn about different cultures.
  5. Don't take anything for granted, being around people you love, friends family and the moments you spend with others.
  6. What out for your mental health and don't be scared to look for professional help.
  7. Have control of your emotions dont let your emotions have control over you
  8. Not everyone is as kind as you are to them.
  9. Don't ever blame yourself for how others act.
  10. Belive in the law of attraction, use affirmations, create rituals.
  11. Don't be so hard on yourself. Love your body you only get one.
  12. Travel travel travel
  13. Learn new things, cook, crafts, a new language, any cool thing!
  14. Excersice it will actually make you feel amazing.
  15. There is toxic people make sure to identify them and try and stay away.
  16. Inconsistency says more....
  17. Consistency is key.
  18. People will lie to you looking straight in your eyes🤷🏻‍♀️
  19. Read often, listen to podcasts, audiobooks, constantly educate yourself.
  20. Take a chance and message that person the worst that can happen is no reply. lol
  21. Once you walk out of my life I'm not gonna hang around, and don't expect to pop back in.
  22. You will be betrayed by the people you least expect, so always expect everything from anyone.
  23. You will eventually stop crying about everything.
  24. You will get ghosted a lot for no reason. Its not you I promise haha just people don't know how to handle and adult conversation of closure
  25. Have a decent looking savings account (just in case of a pandemic or you suddenly become unemployed)
  26. Don't waste your time dating and focus on yourself.
  27. If you have and idea or dream stop putting it off. Life is to short.
  28. And I you want to do anything just go for it. You will only regret what you never did or tried.
  29. Love yourself first.
Look always towards great thinks, cry 5 mins and move on, stay positive, and look for people that love you and inspire you. You have so much to learn. You are beautiful and you are worth so much. I am looking for opportunities in all this chaos I encourage you to do the same💜

Love Taryn🌺

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